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Guidance
Experiencing stalking can be a distressing and frightening situation. If you are being stalked or believe you are being stalked, take action.
About
Stalking refers to a pattern of unwanted and harassing behaviors directed towards an individual, causing them fear, distress, or concern for their safety.
It involves persistent and intrusive actions, either in person or through various forms of communication, that are intended to intimidate, control, or monitor the victim.
Stalking can occur in various contexts, such as personal relationships, acquaintances, or even strangers.
It is important to note that laws and legal definitions of stalking may vary between jurisdictions, but the core elements typically include repeated unwanted behaviors that create a reasonable fear for the victim’s safety or well-being.
Stalking can be committed by any sex. Do not wrongly assume it is only undertaken by males.
Options
Experiencing stalking can be a distressing and frightening situation.
If you are being stalked or believe you are being stalked, here are some steps you can take to help protect yourself and stop the stalking:
Take it seriously
Acknowledge that stalking is a serious matter and should not be ignored. Trust your instincts if you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
Consider a conversation
Depending on the context, risk and whether the parties are known to each other.
If known to each other, consider having a conversation with the alleged stalker, in the company of other people. This may clarify issues and check the issue early.
Document incidents
Keep a detailed record of every stalking incident, including dates, times, locations, descriptions of the incidents, and any evidence you may have (such as messages, emails, or photos). This documentation can be valuable when reporting the stalking to the authorities.
Inform trusted individuals
Share the situation with people you trust, such as family members, close friends, or colleagues. They can provide emotional support and help you stay safe.
Use Live Sharing features in Ylore, for line of sight on your travels. Create a safety plan for locations where you are unsure of who/what is there, or want location visibility to others.
Contact the police
Report the stalking incidents to your local law enforcement agency.
Provide them with the documented evidence and any relevant information. They can guide you through the legal processes and take appropriate action to protect you.
Restraining order or protection order
Consult with a legal professional or your local law enforcement agency to explore the possibility of obtaining a restraining order or protection order against the stalker.
This legal document can provide legal protection and prohibit the stalker from contacting or coming near you.
Strengthen security measures
Enhance your personal security by taking measures such as changing locks, installing security systems, ensuring adequate lighting around your home, and varying your daily routines.
Protect your social media and online presence
Secure your online accounts by using strong, unique passwords, enabling two-factor authentication, and reviewing your privacy settings on social media platforms.
Limit the personal information you share online to minimize the stalker’s access to your life.
Hardware
Depending on your jurisdiction, there may be hardware options available to use, from non-lethal force options such as pepper spray, through to guns.
If you do decide to equip yourself with hardware, ensure you undertake training and consider the options and scenarios.
Consider what could happen if the hardware is taken from you or, an event escalates where lethal force is used and what the consequences may be.
Seek professional support
Consider seeking support from a mental health professional or counselor who can provide guidance, coping strategies, and emotional support during this challenging time.
Remember, everyone’s situation is unique, and it’s crucial to tailor your actions to your specific circumstances.
Reach out to law enforcement or local organizations specializing in assisting stalking victims for additional guidance and support.